A Wry, Honest Look At The Default Parent Load
This parenting book speaks directly to the hidden labour of running family life, from school runs to lists no one else remembers. Funny, knowing and reassuring, it will resonate with readers who want to feel seen while making sense of the endless mental load.
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A Wry, Honest Look At The Default Parent Load
This parenting book speaks directly to the hidden labour of running family life, from school runs to lists no one else remembers. Funny, knowing and reassuring, it will resonate with readers who want to feel seen while making sense of the endless mental load.
- Book Synopsis
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Ideal for readers who:
- Need parenting nonfiction that speaks to the load often carried by default parents.
- Are interested in family life, invisible labour and the mental admin no one sees.
- Want humour, recognition and practical insight from lived experience.
- Prefer honest, relatable writing that makes overwhelmed parents feel understood.
What nobody tells you about parenthood, from one of the ‘silent partners’ behind the Parenting Hell podcast.
School-run coordinator, party planner, clubs organiser, laundry sorter… and maybe even a ‘real’ job on top! Sound exhaustingly familiar? From assumptions surrounding who is going to stay at home with the kids to the never-ending list of ‘school’ admin, being ‘the default parent’ rears its head in a plethora of ways.
This book is for all the defaults out there – bored out of their eyeballs or so overwhelmed they could scream expletives into the wind for a solid hour – to know their invisible labour is seen and valued.
With heartfelt and hilarious advice, Lou Beckett provides much-needed comfort and community for the one who is depended on the most (and often feels appreciated the least), and maybe – just maybe – how we can begin to rebalance the parenting scales and muddle through a little better, together.
- About The Author
- Lou Beckett is a mother of two, ex-secondary school teacher, and wife to Rob Beckett. The (mostly) silent participant of the incredibly successful Parenting Hell podcast (spoken about, not to, except for the occasional 'right to reply' episodes), she can speak about the similarly 'silent' issues: default parenting, emotional labour, and managing the mental load of parenthood. Her popular blog post, A Very Long Whinge, prompted many 'me too' moments from parents.
- Product Details
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- ISBN
- 9780241762912
- Format
- Hardback
- Publisher
- DK RED, (12 February 2026)
- Number of Pages
- 240
- Weight
- 342 grams
- Language
- English
- Dimensions
- 224 x 145 x 25 mm
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